Posts tagged ‘kissing’

August 12, 2010

“Oh, what a perfect day….”

It’s been an odd weekend, but it ended on a wonderful note after some rocky, tense sexual moments that I hadn’t expected and which just weren’t in the cards, at least in the moments they were presented. I’ve had my stomach licked a baffling amount this weekend, which I have to admit I sort of liked….

I went to the movies with a friend named Mae that had recently broken up with her boyfriend and we had a lovely time as we always do. She’s beautiful and brilliant; plays several instruments and has an energy and passion that can overwhelm people, but I find it inspiring. The theater we went to is one that caters to overindulgence, so we overindulged and it was worth it.

On Sunday, Kitty and I met with Mae and we all spent the day together. Kitty and I hopped on the streetcar and headed uptown, meeting Mae along the way. We walked to Prytania street which is lined with amazing food and little boutiques. It was sweltering hot outside and we all complained a little about the heat as we fanned ourselves, pulled the fabric away from our sticky bodies.

Our first choice for food was closed for the summer, but we ended up someplace a little nice because of the inconvenience. We talked about relationships over wonderful food and enjoyed our little respite from the punishment of August in the deep south.

We made plans to continue the party back at Mae’s house and we stopped along the way at the store, making a spectacle of ourselves as we searched the isle for things that we never really needed in the first place.  We spoke loudly, openly about everything and made people nearby smile and laugh out loud both at us and with us.

When we made it back to Mae’s house, we chilled a bottle of champagne and played ridiculous board games, taking little breaks to fill empty glasses, tell stories about each of our lives and what’d been unfolding in them recently.

Mae played the piano as Kitty and I watched, entranced as her fingers made their way effortlessly across the keys. She apologized for playing sloppily, blaming the champagne and the lack of recent practice, but all we saw was perfection. When she mentioned that she’d been in a metal band, we listened to recordings of that, impressed by her talent there as well.

I sat in the corner of the room, my eye’s drifting between Mae and Kitty, appreciating their similarities and their differences. I thought about the men in both of their lives that had recently caused them grief and labeled those men fools in my head.

July 23, 2010

All the lovely moments

I sat tonight with Kitty, eating gluttonous food and working out the details of a friend’s birthday surprise. We’d met this afternoon and accomplished the few things we’d set out to do. I’d almost backed out on all the plans for today, having gone home last night feeling that I should reconsider how I’ve been spending my time.

It’s been a year since my divorce. A very colorful year. I’ve met a lot of new people, got better acquainted with ones that I’d already know and carved a life for myself out of what was left of the one that I lived for the seven years prior. I’ve fallen in and out of love, I’ve had successes and failures in every aspect of my life, but that’s just what happens if you take the time to live. Sometimes your heart breaks a little and it reminds you that you have one and that you haven’t stopped believing in love or looking for it.

July 1, 2010

besame mucho

Trisha Uptown

February 1, 2010

all in the name of research

After hearing her unhappiness with a recent kiss, I discussed the idea with a friend about writing an article on kissing. We laughed about what lengths you’d have to go through to get a good idea of what makes a kisser good (or at least appealing to you.) We sort of walked away from the idea mid conversation, but it’s come up again just often enough that I haven’t forgotten about it.

Saturday night I was out with friends and I was thinking of the idea. I brought it up to a girl who I’ve known for a while and her boyfriend (who I’ve become fast friends with), explaining it wasn’t about finding a certain number of people who I wanted an excuse to make out with, but rather finding a good diverse group.

She asked him if it was alright if she kissed me and he sort of hesitated, so I was reluctant. Finally it was agreed upon that we should kiss, but only for a moment, so we did. I’ve kissed her before, so it wasn’t a new experience, but never in a crowded bar with onlookers and certainly under different circumstances.

When we were done, I asked him if he was alright. He’s assured me in his that he was fine, so I explained the criteria better to him, including that at some point I’d have to kiss men for the sake of research as well.

I’d just been saying to someone the other day that I’d never been involved with or even kissed anyone with an accent before, so when I mentioned kissing a man and he said “Shall we get on with it then?” in his charming British accent, I crossed two firsts off the list with a kiss there in the middle of a crowded bar.

I turned and took note of his girlfriend (who hadn’t been asked for permission as he had) staring at us, slack jawed.

“That was incredibly hot” she said and he smiled bashfully.

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January 21, 2010

spark

It’d been a long time since anyone really excited me, made my pulse race, but being in her presence I found myself in a constant state of arousal. I’d begun to wonder if i’d ever feel a thrill again, but there was something about her that laid that fear to rest. I looked into her sparkling eyes and kissed her in a way that is uncharacteristically forward of me. I apologized, but we both knew I wasn’t really sorry.

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December 5, 2009

Beauty Queens

Aaliyah Love

We shot a beauty pageant theme, complete with tiara’s, roses and sashes that confirmed that these beautiful creatures would go to great lengths to claim first prize.

November 17, 2009

Almost